Managing With Problems You Can’t Fix

There is a widespread belief that every problem has a solution – and that the solution to every problem is “just around the corner”. This belief adds to our frustration because there are problems whose solutions are not available -- at least the solution that we would like to put in place.
Of course, there are times when all that we have available are incomplete solutions that are either just as bad or maybe even worse than the original problem.
 
Two examples of life problems without immediate solutions are problems that require the participation of an uncooperative person; or financial crises without available resources.
 
I’ve created a list of things to do when you are confronted with an unsolvable problem.

1. When seeking solutions don’t allow your frustration and need to be right cloud your judgement
2. Don’t get mentally stuck on one solution. Don’t try to make a solution successful that won’t work.
3. Take the time to understand and accept the presence of the problem until a solution is found
4. Plan for how you will work with, accommodate, or work around the problem until it is solved
5. Put your plan in place and routinely check your progress toward acceptance and accommodation
6. Resolve to give it your best effort while you patiently wait
7. Don’t give up on the possibility of resolution if an answer doesn't come right away – be patient
8. Seek comfort in your belief system that guides you toward optimism and grace

 
Would you like more information about this topic? Or how about a brief, no-judgement discussion of your current situation? Contact my offices at (336) 999-4533 or email me at DonnaColes.Coach@gmail.com and we’ll schedule a time to discuss your personal development challenges and identify some options that will help.
 
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Until then…